A Guided Acceptance Exercise for Anxiety … Learning To Let Go
Fully letting go of the fight – fully accepting the experience of being anxious or afraid or even having a full panic attack – is a central concept in anxiety disorder recovery. And while the principles behind this concept are relatively simple and sound, ACTUALLY DOING THIS – letting go when afraid or distressed – is hard to do. Everyone struggles to figure this out. Everyone wants to know HOW to let go. This week we’ll do a short guided acceptance exercise designed to help clarify some misconceptions about mindful acceptance in anxiety recovery and to help you get a real sense of what it really does look and feel like to allow these scary and difficult internal experiences.
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Can you transform your relationship with anxiety by letting go and dropping your resistance?
Well, the most effective acceptance-based treatments for chronic and disordered anxiety are based on this exact principle.
The concepts are simple and the theory is sound, yet most anxious people struggle with fully letting to and engaging in mindful acceptance of anxiety, fear, panic, uncertainty, and other difficult internal experiences.
Of course they struggle! Choosing to fully allow these scary feelings is a big ask. It’s not easy. It requires a leap of faith in the underlying principles and a healthy dose of courage to allow anxiety and fear to “do their worst” without trying to save oneself or be rescued. But difficult as this might be, its a worthwhile ability to cultivate as it forms the foundation of effective and lasting anxiety recovery while also becoming a valuable life skill that lasts forever.
This week we’re doing a guided mindful acceptance exercise designed to help you sit with anxiety instead of battling it, a practice that teaches you to observe your feelings without trying to control or diminish them. This approach isn’t suitable for those overwhelmed by traumatic memories or flashbacks (without professional help), but it provides valuable lessons for anyone looking to understand and ultimately overcome lifestyle restrictions imposed by chronic or disordered anxiety.
This is about 15 minutes of theory, rationale, and basic instruction followed by 10-15 minutes of guided/coached mindful acceptance. There’s more speaking, instruction and coaching here than you might find when doing guided mindfulness exercises, but this particular exercise is designed to provide a sound introduction to the practice as a way to get started or work through initial resistance.
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Links Of Interest
Anxiety Recovery and the Paradox of Letting Go
The Paradox of Seeking Certainty and Safety
How Can I Accept Anxiety Without Spiraling?
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